Moving with Children

May 9, 2011

Though parents realize how monumental moving can be just in terms of physical things, moving can also be extremely difficult on children especially if they tend to be shy and introverted.  What are some things that you can do to minimize the effects of moving?

1. Tell your children about the move as soon as possible.

2. Maintain daily routines as much as possible.  This is crucial for little ones. 

3. Involve them age appropriate tasks or responsibilities — this can give them a sense of control over their situation.

4. Be patient with them — adjusting to new schools, neighborhoods and living arrangements is stressful for them despite parents’ best efforts.

5. Help your children make new friends and get involved in the community.

6. Look for signs that your child is having difficulty adjusting: long-term anxiety, depression, disruptions in sleep, falling grades and poor socialization at school or in the neighborhood.

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